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Practice

5-Minute Calming Breath

A simple breathing exercise to help your body slow down, release tension and shift out of constant “go mode.”

How to do it

Find a comfortable position, sitting or lying down. Let your shoulders soften and place one hand on your chest and one on your belly.

  1. Breathe in slowly through your nose for 4 seconds.

    Try to let the breath move gently into your belly rather than lifting your shoulders.

  2. Breathe out slowly for 6 seconds.

    Let the exhale be soft and relaxed — no need to force it.

  3. Repeat this rhythm for 5 minutes.

    If 4 seconds in and 6 seconds out feels uncomfortable, simply shorten the count while keeping your exhale slightly longer than your inhale.

Set your rhythm

Inhale

1 — 2 — 3 — 4

Exhale

1 — 2 — 3 — 4 — 5 — 6

Adjust the count to what feels comfortable, as long as your exhale stays a little longer than your inhale.

Why it can help

Slow breathing with a longer exhale can support the parasympathetic nervous system — the part of your nervous system involved in rest and recovery. It can help reduce feelings of tension, slow your breathing rate and create a calmer physiological state.

Use it when

You feel overwhelmed, before sleep, after a busy day or simply whenever you need a few minutes for yourself.

“You don’t have to earn a moment of calm. Sometimes five quiet minutes are exactly what your body needs.”

"You do not need to earn your rest. You are allowed to stop before you break."
— Permission to pause